Valentine’s Day is a time for love and romance, but it can be especially difficult for those whose loved ones are in memory care. Even though you may not be able to give them the lavish gifts or romantic dinners that other couples enjoy, you can still have fun together and make Valentine’s Day special for both of you. If you’re worried about how to celebrate the holiday when your loved one is staying in a facility like ours here at SummerHouse Bay Cove, don’t worry! We’ve got some great ideas below:
Donate To A Charity They Love
If your loved one is in memory care, consider donating in their honor. This is an excellent way to make them feel special on Valentine’s Day and give back at the same time. One of the best ways to do this is by donating to a charity they love or support—especially if it’s local or national; however, if they are international travelers themselves and have traveled throughout the world, then donating internationally is also an option!
Volunteer Together
You can volunteer together in many places, such as at a hospital, senior center, or even your loved one’s memory care community, if they can participate in activities.
Volunteering will also give you a chance to show your loved one they are still needed and valuable in their community. You can also create memories by volunteering as a couple or with other family members who live far away from your loved one’s memory care community but want to support them in some way on Valentine’s Day.
Write A Letter
In the case of writing to your loved one, consider what you would like to write about if they were able to read it. If you have pictures from past holidays, consider including those as well. As you write, think about what gifts or activities might make them happy.
As much as possible, try not to let your sadness show in the letter—remember that this is also an opportunity for closure and acceptance. You’ll know when it’s time; trust me!
For yourself: Write down how much joy this person has brought into your life and how their illness hasn’t changed that fact at all—you just want them in good health again so you can enjoy their company more often!
Decorate Their Room
You can also decorate your loved one’s room with balloons and flowers. The care team will be happy to help you pick out the perfect arrangement you can give them as a Valentine’s Day gift. This will show them that they’re not just another community resident—they still matter to you!
If your loved one has been living in memory care for some time, everyone must know how much they are missed by those who loved them before their move into an assisted living community. On Valentine’s Day, everyone must understand how special their loved one is and recognizes how much they mean to others around them.
Sing Songs And Play Music
There are many ways to bring music into your Day. You can sing a song or two or play music from your loved one’s favorite genre and era. You could even try playing songs by their famous artist!
Conclusion
You can still celebrate, do activities and give gifts even if your loved one is in memory care. You don’t have to let the holiday pass without honoring your loved one’s life and making memories with them. Take these suggestions and make the most of Valentine’s Day!
